I woke up this morning at 5 a.m. The cat was pawing at my face, which reminded me that my head was still hurting. I needed to get up, tend to the cat and take some Excedrin. I sat up on the couch for a while and my mind started listening to God's heart for me. I had a song about love rolling through my mind like a record skipping. From there my thoughts drifted to the Ten Commandments and finally landed on the greatest commandment. "Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, mind and strength and love your neighbor as yourself." The other morning I awakened saying out loud that the most important thing is to love God and love people. Now today the Lord pointed out another piece to that truth. Love yourself. It is so easy to look right past that, but doesn't it say to love God and self and people. I think we have been trained to believe that to love self would be wrong. It would be thinking too highly of ourselves or not denying ourselves the way we should. It would be a subtle form of pride. Isn't it interesting how we come to believe such lies? It doesn't take much to learn to despise ourselves because when we compare ourselves to what we "think" we should be, we fall so short. Maybe we don't deserve love because of what we feel we have done, or aren't pretty or handsome enough or smart enough. There are a myriad of ways we are conditioned to buy into the lies. It is time to recognize that is what they are. If we believe those lies then how can we receive the love of God because we will think He couldn't possibly love this mess. When we can't receive love, how can we give love? We can only give away what we have. A precursor to loving God is receiving His love. We find out that His love is completely unconditional. While we were still unsaved, He loved us. It wasn't after we got our act together, because that would never happen. He loves us and wants us to love ourselves. When we truly love ourselves we have received the love of God. It is only then that we are able to love Him back and then love others. So how are you at loving self?